My Mother is competing with me at weightloss?
August 6, 2009 by admin
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Yes she is being rude. Probably because she’s jealous that you are younger than her, so she wants to rub it in that she is slimmer than you now. Just tell her what you told us, that you don’t want it to be a competition and that you’d rather support eachother than what she’s been doing. She may not even know she’s doing it.
Just be open and honest, thats a horrible thing a mother can do. My mother used to do the same with me but not about weight loss, She was always jealous of me. So one day I cryed with her and we talked it out. Its hard to do but it could make your relationship stronger.
Your mother is pobably on a high still from losing 60lbs. Thats an awesome thing.
I would talk to her and tell her that the way she is acting is not helping you. Don’t blow up at her, but try to talk to her in a calm manner. Maybe she doesn’t realize how what she is doing is affecting you.
talk to her politely..tell her that you love her and you will be happy only if she undertsands truly what you are going through..tell her not to compare herself with you and that it hurst you a lot emotionally…
Confron her and tell her how you feel and how she makes you feel. She needs to know and understand this. If you don’t she will win, it will bring you down and you will prolbably end up bitter at her in the long run. I hope you can work this out.
B.T.W Congrats on trying to lose weight I know how hard it is!
God Bless and Good Luck!!